A Mother’s Day Note from One Expat to Another
It’s a strange thing, living far away from home — especially when home is South Africa. There’s always a piece of your heart planted firmly in the soil you left behind, and for me, that piece has my mom’s name written all over it.
As an expat living in the Netherlands, Mother’s Day is one of those bittersweet days. I want to be there — making her tea, chatting in the kitchen, laughing about something silly one of the kids said. But I’m here, on the other side of the world. So instead, I search for small, thoughtful ways to remind her how much she means to me.
And let’s be honest — it’s not always easy.
This year, Mother’s Day in South Africa falls on Sunday, 11 May 2025. Whether you're planning ahead or sending something last-minute, there’s still time to choose a gift that makes her feel seen and celebrated.
Trying to find a beautiful, meaningful gift that doesn’t feel generic, navigating shipping logistics, and making sure it actually gets there on time… it used to feel like more hassle than heartfelt.
That’s exactly why we started INDLU.
I wanted to create a gifting service that makes it easy for people like me — South Africans abroad who still have all their love rooted at home — to send something that feels personal, warm, and deeply thoughtful. Not just a gift, but a gesture that says "I see you, I love you, and I miss you."
Our curated gift boxes are filled with home-grown South African luxury: from elegant napkins, napkin rings and fun serveware. And the best part? You can personalise your gift with a card, and schedule it in advance — so even if you’re knee-deep in Dutch weather and toddlers (hi, it’s me), your gift still arrives with intention and love.
If you’re lucky enough to still have your mom — or a mother figure — in your life, don’t wait to say the things that matter. Choose something special. Write a note. Make her feel seen.
Looking for the perfect Mother’s Day gift?
Discover our curated and individual gift collection — made in South Africa, ready to deliver with love.
